Leaving your dog alone
How do I build my dog's alone tolerance back up after a holiday together?
Last updated 23 September 2026 · How we write and check this
Short answer
Treat the days right after returning from a holiday the same way you would a return to office transition: start with short practice absences and rebuild gradually, rather than expecting the dog to snap straight back into its usual routine after an extended stretch of constant togetherness.
Why holidays reset tolerance too
An extended period of constant company, even a short one or two week holiday, is often enough to noticeably shift a dog's comfort with being left, especially if the holiday also involved a change of location or routine on top of the extra togetherness.
A gentle first week back
Ease back into the normal schedule over several days rather than immediately resuming a full workday, if your own return to work allows any flexibility, giving the dog a chance to readjust gradually rather than facing the full change all at once.
Watching for holiday specific triggers
If the holiday involved a stressful event, such as a difficult car or plane trip or an unfamiliar environment, the dog's struggle with alone time afterward may be tangled up with that experience too, which is worth considering alongside the simple loss of company.
Building recovery time into future travel plans
Where possible, scheduling a day or two of lighter commitments after returning from an extended trip, rather than diving straight back into a full workday the very next morning, gives both you and the dog a gentler landing. Many owners find that treating this recovery period as a normal, expected part of travel, rather than an inconvenience, makes future trips feel less disruptive to the household's overall routine over time. Building this buffer day into travel plans from the outset, rather than as an afterthought, makes it far more likely to actually happen when you get home tired yourself. Even a single quiet day at home together before returning to a normal schedule tends to noticeably ease the whole household's transition back to routine.
Key takeaways
- An extended holiday together, even just a week or two, can meaningfully shift a dog's alone time tolerance.
- Easing back into the normal schedule over several days works better than an immediate full return.
- Consider whether any stressful events during the holiday itself are also contributing to the struggle.