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How do I stop my puppy from peeing when excited?

Last updated 23 September 2026 · How we write and check this

Short answer

Keep greetings low key by approaching calmly, avoiding direct eye contact and leaning over the puppy, and let them settle for a few seconds before any petting begins, since excitement urination is triggered by overstimulation rather than a training gap. Most puppies grow out of this naturally by 6 to 12 months as their bladder control and confidence both mature.

Why calm greetings help so much

A puppy who is overwhelmed by an excited, high energy greeting, especially from a tall person leaning down or reaching over their head, is far more likely to leak a small amount of urine than one who is greeted at their level, calmly and quietly, with a moment to settle first.

What not to do about it

Never scold or react strongly to excitement urination, since it is involuntary and a frustrated reaction from you actually increases the anxiety that makes it worse, creating a cycle rather than solving anything. Building the puppy's overall confidence through gentle, positive experiences tends to resolve this faster than any direct correction ever could.

Key takeaways

  • Calm, low key greetings at the puppy's level reduce the overstimulation that triggers excitement urination.
  • Scolding an involuntary response increases anxiety and tends to make the pattern worse, not better.
  • Most puppies naturally outgrow this by 6 to 12 months as confidence and bladder control mature.