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Best terriers for families: 10 breeds with real spirit and genuine patience
Terriers bring plenty of personality, and these breeds pair it with a temperament that holds up to family life.
Last updated 23 September 2026 · How we write and check this
Terriers as a group were bred for independent, often solitary work, going to ground after vermin, which can make the group as a whole more assertive and less naturally biddable than a retriever or herding breed. The breeds below were chosen specifically for a track record of patience and genuine warmth toward children despite that general terrier independence.
Every terrier still carries real prey drive and a tendency toward vocal alertness, traits worth managing consistently in a family household regardless of how gentle a specific breed's reputation is with children.
- 1West Highland White Terrier
Terrier group · 6 to 10 kg · 12 to 15 years
West Highland White Terriers bring a kids score of 3, workable with supervision and consistent teaching of gentle handling, and a genuinely sturdy, confident temperament that holds its own in a busy family household. Their compact size, 7 to 10 kg, suits families without space for a larger dog. The honest caveat is a barking score of 4: this breed's alert, vocal nature needs early, consistent training in a family household with regular visitors or close neighbors.
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- 2Cairn Terrier
Terrier group · 6 to 8 kg · 13 to 15 years
Cairn Terriers bring a kids score of 4 and a naturally cheerful, resilient temperament, a playfulness score of 5, that suits the unpredictability of family life better than some more delicate small breeds. Their low grooming needs, a score of 3 with simple hand stripping, keep upkeep manageable for a busy family. The honest caveat is a barking score of 4: this breed's terrier heritage includes real vocal alertness that needs consistent training to manage around children's friends coming and going.
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- 3Boston Terrier
Non-sporting group · 5 to 11 kg · 11 to 13 years
Boston Terriers bring a full kids score of 5 and strangers score of 5, genuinely easy temperaments for a family that regularly hosts children's friends and extended family gatherings. Their short coat also keeps grooming simple for a busy household. The honest caveat is heat sensitivity, a score of just 1: as a flat faced breed, this dog needs real caution during family activities in warm weather, since overheating can happen faster than expected during an energetic backyard game.
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- 4Staffordshire Bull Terrier
Terrier group · 11 to 17 kg · 12 to 14 years
Staffordshire Bull Terriers bring a full kids score of 5 and a long standing UK reputation as a genuinely devoted family breed, with real physical sturdiness, 11 to 17 kg of solid muscle, that tolerates boisterous family play well. Their short coat needs minimal grooming, a real time saver for a busy family. The honest caveat is a low otherDogs score of 2: a family considering a second dog needs careful, gradual introductions rather than assuming this breed's family friendliness extends automatically to other dogs.
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- 5Soft Coated Wheaten Terrier
Terrier group · 14 to 18 kg · 12 to 14 years
Soft Coated Wheaten Terriers bring a kids score of 4 and a genuinely upbeat, playful temperament, a score of 5, that suits an active family household well. Their low shedding coat, a score of 1, is a practical plus for families managing allergies, though a grooming score of 5 means regular brushing is a real ongoing task. The honest caveat is energy: a score of 4 means this breed needs real daily exercise beyond a short family stroll, or its exuberance turns into jumping and general chaos.
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- 6Airedale Terrier
Terrier group · 18 to 29 kg · 11 to 14 years
Airedale Terriers bring a kids score of 4 and genuine size and sturdiness for a terrier, 23 to 29 kg, that tolerates boisterous family play better than a smaller, more fragile terrier breed. Their moderate trainability, a score of 3, responds well to consistent, patient family training. The honest caveat is grooming: a score of 4 means regular hand stripping or clipping, a real ongoing family commitment, and energy, a score of 4, that needs genuine daily exercise beyond a short walk around the block.
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- 7Welsh Terrier
Terrier group · 8 to 10 kg · 12 to 15 years
Welsh Terriers bring a kids score of 4 and a compact, sturdy build, 9 to 10 kg, that suits family life in a smaller footprint than a larger terrier breed would need. Their moderate energy, a score of 4, matches an active family's daily walks and play sessions well. The honest caveat is a low otherDogs score of 2: this breed's terrier instincts mean careful, gradual introductions matter for a family considering a second dog or regular visits from other pets.
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- 8Border Terrier
Terrier group · 5 to 7 kg · 12 to 15 years
Border Terriers bring a kids score of 4 and otherDogs score of 4, genuinely sociable traits that suit a family household with existing pets or frequent visiting dogs better than many other terrier breeds. Their moderate size, 5 to 7 kg, and low grooming needs, a score of 2, suit a busy family well. The honest caveat is energy, a score of 4: this breed's working terrier heritage means real daily exercise matters, and an under exercised Border Terrier tends toward digging and escape attempts.
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- 9Norfolk Terrier
Terrier group · 5 to 6 kg · 12 to 15 years
Norfolk Terriers bring a kids score of 4 and otherDogs score of 4, genuinely sociable traits for a terrier breed, combined with a compact size, just 5 to 6 kg, that suits a family without much space for a larger dog. Their moderate trainability, a score of 3, responds reasonably well to consistent family training. The honest caveat is a barking score of 3 paired with real terrier prey drive, meaning small pets like rabbits in the same household need careful, permanent management.
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- 10Parson Russell Terrier
Terrier group · 5 to 8 kg · 13 to 15 years
Parson Russell Terriers bring real energy, a score of 5, that suits an active family wanting a genuinely engaged small dog rather than a calm lapdog. Their compact size, 6 to 8 kg, makes them manageable for family life despite the intensity. The honest caveat is a low otherDogs score of 2 combined with a moderate kids score of 3: this breed's strong prey drive and terrier assertiveness mean careful supervision matters more here than with some gentler small breeds.
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A terrier's independent streak means consistent, patient training matters more in a family household than with some more naturally eager to please breeds, and a structured puppy class is a genuinely useful investment for any family bringing home a terrier for the first time. Breed clubs for most terriers maintain active communities that can offer real, practical advice specific to raising the breed around children.
Are terriers generally good with children compared with other dog groups?
It varies significantly within the terrier group, some breeds are genuinely excellent with children while others suit a household without young kids better. Terriers as a whole tend to be more assertive and less naturally patient than retriever or toy breeds on average, which is why breed specific research matters more here than assuming the whole group behaves similarly.
Do terriers need more training than other family dog breeds?
Often yes, since many terriers have moderate trainability scores reflecting genuine independence rather than a lack of intelligence. Consistent, patient, reward based training from puppyhood tends to produce better results with most terriers than the quicker, more straightforward training some retriever breeds respond to.
Can terriers live safely with smaller pets like rabbits or guinea pigs?
This needs real caution. Many terriers were specifically bred to hunt small animals, and that instinct does not reliably disappear with training, meaning a family with small pets should research a specific terrier breed's prey drive carefully and consider permanent physical separation rather than assuming supervised coexistence will always be safe.